Rude or Pleasant ?

Carly · Joined: 09 Sep 2008 Posts: 5

Are you are rude or pleasant person Laughing

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In all honesty I can be rude if I am provoked, I believe that we treat others the way they treat us, so be rude to me I am rude back and be nice to me and I will be nice back.

ThirdEye · Joined: 09 Sep 2008 Posts: 5

I am almost always a pleasant person. I'm a big believer in treating someone the same way you want to be treated. Competition is a big part of human nature, and it seems like if you treat someone poorly they will "compete" with your efforts and treat you just as bad, and probably even worse. Basically, I am a very sympathetic person with a habit of putting myself in other people's shoes, so being rude just leaves me with a guilty and bad feeling about myself, and I always end up just wishing I had been more pleasant when I had the opportunity. Who wants to deal with those thoughts??

fluffymuppet · Joined: 11 Sep 2008 Posts: 5

My personal belief is that there is almost never a good reason to be unpleasant to someone - although there are plenty of people who seem to think differently! I can remember quite a few occasions when people have been unnecessarily unpleasant to me and would later have benefited from my help if they had been nicer. I think it's best to treat everyone as though you may need their cooperation in the future, even if you don't enjoy their company now!

krazy12766 · Joined: 25 Sep 2008 Posts: 5

I am pretty darn rude =p

sticklebrick · Joined: 27 Sep 2008 Posts: 5

I can be rude - usually when I'm very tired. I always regret it though. Ideally I would never be rude - I think you should treat everybody as you wish to be treated yourself. However, I'm only human and do snap from time to time!

baggen · Joined: 26 Sep 2008 Posts: 10

Oh, I love to read! Currently I'm reading an epic fantasy novel called "The Wheel of Time". I highly suggest it to everyone Wink

jmsutton · Joined: 07 Oct 2008 Posts: 5

I tend to be very rude especially when you get on my bad side. Ask my fellow coworkers on some of the mean stuff I make them do

Bezuca · Joined: 08 Oct 2008 Posts: 5

Depends on the situation. I'm a shy person and that means that most of the times i'm pleasant, but if someone starts to "piss me off" i can be rude as well. I think people should be polite in all situations, but sometimes it's so hard...

Onekz · Joined: 08 Oct 2008 Posts: 5

I'm almost ALWAYS a kind person. I'm really laid back and it usually takes a lot to get me annoyed.

centrik · Joined: 08 Oct 2008 Posts: 2

While I try to be as pleasant as possible, I have my days when I'm rude.

jennysp8 · Joined: 09 Oct 2008 Posts: 13

Well, that is a good question but sort of a complicated one as well. I am as sweet as pie when the people around me have my respect. Turn sour on me though and I can be extremely rude and just plain old mean. It all depends on who I am around and what they have done to me. Be nice to me and I will be nice to you. Wink

ri0thex · Joined: 09 Oct 2008 Posts: 10

I'm a pleasant person and usually am, but at the same time there are certain times whenever I can be rude. I think that is how it is with alot of people though.

tnok85 · Joined: 10 Oct 2008 Posts: 8

I'm fairly laid back, and have been told I'm pleasant.

If I'm insulted directly, or somebody I care about is, I can absolutely lose that pleasantness.. but I don't think that's being rude. Rude is more like... being a jerk when it's not really deserved.

I guess I can be rude sometimes, like if somebody tries to talk to me while I'm shopping or something, I just kind of smile and nod and walk away. I don't go shopping to make friends... Very Happy